When people come with relationship issues we do a technique that helps them resolve the blockage in the relationship and change their response to that person (living/dead).

Usually people whose relationships are not functional always feel that it is so because the other person is not willing to change. They also believe that it cant get better till the other person doesn’t change his/her behaviour or attitude. This is a myth. IN all relationships we all suffer from our own perceptual distortions of that person based on our past experiences with that person and we always unconsciously behave or respond to them based on these perceptual distortions that we have. So the other person also continues to respond to our response in a fixed pattern that is based on his/her own perceptual distortion – and this pattern continues – sometimes for life!!

When clients come to us with relationship issues like:

  • I am not on talking terms with my best friend for last 5 years because of something that happened 5 years ago and I feel she still hasn’t forgiven me
  • I rarely talk to my father because I know whatever I say he will always misunderstand me and start judging and nagging me
  • My cousin had molested me when I was a kid and now each time I see him in a family event I feel so awkward that i want to run away – I can’t see eye to eye with him and nobody can understand why because I cannot tell them about it
  • My employee is very rude and singles me out each time to scold and humiliate me – I am unable to speak up for myself as i am too scared to lose my job
  • My mother passed away suddenly due to liver complications and till date each time I talk or her, think of her or even see her picture, I break down and start crying

IN all of these above relationships we can help the client to completely change his/her response to the other person using this technique and we can replace the old undesired emotion/feeling with a new positive/empowering feeling in that interaction – thereby changing their relationship for life!! The change is usually permanent and once the clients response to the other person has shifted, the other persons response also changes!! Action and reaction are equal and opposite!

Sharing some data on such therapy put together by Suhanee L Bakeri and the wonderful results that she achieved with this technique. Our students are regularly using this with all relationship issues and it never fails!! Do read the clients words before the therapy and the shift in the words a month later!!

So if you are experiencing any blocks in your relationships or there is a lack of closure with a near or dear one – seek help!!

Ririi Trivedi

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Trainer and Therapist using Regression (Past Life Regression & Inner Child) and Hypnotherapy